Finding sapphic and lesbian sex toys that actually feel designed for us can be a struggle to say the least. Between generic products, limited options, and a lack of representation, it’s easy to feel ignored, especially when it comes to big, mainstream toy brands that treat sapphic and lesbian sex toys as an afterthought, if they even consider us at all.
But there are so many incredible queer-owned brands out there creating thoughtful, playful, and genuinely innovative products for queer sex, strap-on play, and self-exploration. These are some of the small businesses making sapphic and lesbian sex toys that our team is obsessed with, not just for what they sell, but for how they show up for the community.
From handmade leather harnesses to colorful custom straps to accessibility-focused designs, each one brings something unique to the world of sapphic and lesbian sex toys and sexccessories.
Talisman Leather
Handmade leather kinkwear
When creating sapphic and lesbian sex toys and accessories, care, intentionality, and community-focused design should always be at the forefront, and Talisman Leather truly exemplifies those core values.
Talisman Leather is a a two-person team creating handcrafted pieces that feel deeply personal. Their work is rooted in the idea of a “talisman,” something you carry with you that reflects how you move through the world.
We love their commitment to slow work — making pieces that are built to last, not be replaced. From leather harnesses and cuffs to more intricate kink accessories, everything is hand-crafted using traditional techniques like stitching, pyrography, and beadwork, giving each piece a unique, lived-in feel.
For anyone exploring sapphic/lesbian sex or looking for thoughtfully made alternatives to mainstream sex toys and accessories, Talisman Leather stands out. Their work blends artistry, durability, and sensuality in a way that feels intentional, grounded, and genuine.
Cute Little Fuckers
Accessible Sex Toys for All Genders
Cute Little Fuckers is everything we love about queer innovation in the world of sex toys--playful, inclusive, and deeply community-driven. They’re a queer, trans, and disabled-owned company focused on making sexual exploration accessible to everyone, across all genders, bodies, and ability levels.
Their toys are designed with flexibility in mind, meaning they work for a wide range of experiences, whether you’re just starting to explore sapphic & queer sex or already know exactly what you like. We especially love how much they prioritize education and emotional accessibility, creating products that feel welcoming rather than intimidating.
Step (the founder) was also incredibly generous in offering advice when we were just starting Banana Split. This type of collaboration and kindness is one of the most wonderful things we've found about being part of the queer sexual wellness community and is a personal testament to Cute Little Fuckers' mission and leadership.
Banana Pants
Dildo base cushions
We love Banana Pants (and how could we not with that name!). They’re true innovators in the world of sapphic and lesbian sex toys, especially when it comes to strap-on play. As the creators of dildo base cushions, they’ve completely reimagined what comfort and stimulation can look like for sapphic partner play in a way we admire and seek to emulate.
Their products are designed to add cushioning, reduce discomfort, and enhance sensation, making strap-on sex more accessible and enjoyable. And our team can testify from personal experience that they truly make all the difference!
Banana Pants is also proudly non-binary and woman-owned, and that care and intention really show in their unique creations. Their designs are thoughtful, playful, and built with the needs of our community at their core. For anyone looking to elevate their experience with sapphic & lesbian sex or find creative alternatives to traditional sex toys, Banana Pants is a brand we’re always excited to recommend!
Candy Straps
Handmade strap on harnesses
We’re practically drooling over Candy Straps! Their custom harnesses are colorful, playful, and such a refreshing take on the world of sapphic and lesbian sex toys and accessories. Born out of a lack of fun, vibrant options on the market, the brand started in 2016 and has grown into a go-to for beautifully made strap-on gear.
Each piece is handmade with care, balancing practicality with personality in a way that feels both functional and expressive. From everyday harnesses to custom bondage gear, everything is designed with the queer community in mind.
For anyone exploring strap-on play or looking to bring more color, playfullness, and individuality into their sapphic/lesbian sex life, Candy Straps is such a fun and accessible place to start!
GNAT Glitter Kink
Fetish and bondage gear
GNAT Glitter Kink is pure fantasy--slick, shiny, and unapologetically bold. Their glitter vinyl and PVC pieces bring a high-gloss, femme-forward energy to the world of sapphic and lesbian sex toys and kink gear, blending fashion and fetish in the best way.
We love how their designs center inclusivity across gender, size, and expression, while still feeling playful, sexy, and decadent. From harnesses to bondage pieces, everything is custom-made to help you tap into your desires and fully lean into your aesthetic.
For anyone exploring sapphic kink, BDSM, or just looking to feel hot in something sparkly, GNAT creates pieces that are equal parts empowering and indulgent. We're obsessed!
Shop Small Businesses for Your Sapphic & Lesbian Sex Toys!
These queer-owned brands are helping reshape sapphic and lesbian sex toys into something more inclusive, creative, and actually reflective of our experiences.
At Banana Split, we are committed to highlighting and supporting queer innovation. It's so easy for these small, community-centered businesses to get overlooked without the power and marketing budget of these huge corporations that treat sapphic and lesbian sex toys as an afterthought. It's up to us to uplift one another and spread the word to connect people to the small queer businesses for sapphic and lesbian sex toys that can be all too hard to find.
Whether you’re just starting to explore sapphic and lesbian sex toys or already know what you love, there’s something really special about supporting brands that are building with our community in mind. And of course, we’ll always be here doing the same at Banana Split--creating sapphic and lesbian sex toys and designs with our community's needs at their core. Thoughtfully designed lesbian sex toys should take into account real lesbian & sapphic dynamics, comfort, anatomy, and the kinds of pleasure and connection our community is actually looking for. That’s part of why we love highlighting queer-owned creators making innovative sapphic & lesbian sex toys, harnesses, BDSM gear, and accessories specifically with queer relationships in mind. The sapphic & lesbian sex toys world has expanded so much in recent years, and it’s genuinely exciting to see more inclusive, creative, and community-focused sapphic & lesbian sex toys becoming available for sapphics exploring everything from beginner-friendly lesbian sex toys to more advanced kink and partner play.
At Banana Split, creating better sapphic and lesbian sex toys is the core of what we do. Our sapphic and lesbian sex toys are designed by sapphics, tested by sapphics, and built with the goal of making sapphic and lesbian sex toys feel more customizable, accessible, and genuinely reflective of our community’s needs. Whether someone is looking for beginner-friendly lesbian sex toys, partner-focused lesbian sex toys, or more innovative lesbian sex toys, we believe queer people deserve products that actually prioritize how we have sex and experience pleasure.
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