You asked, we answered! According to Banana Split Shop’s Instagram polls, our followers are on the hunt for the ultimate Seattle sapphic/lesbian guide—and we’re here to deliver.
Whether you’re looking to meet new people, find sapphic-friendly spaces, or explore Seattle’s vibrant queer scene, this sapphic/lesbian guide has everything you need. From bustling bars and dance parties to cozy cafes, queer bookstores, and community meetups, we’ve rounded up the best spots where sapphics and lesbians can connect, celebrate, and feel at home.
So if you’ve been wondering where to start your sapphic adventure in Seattle, look no further! Banana Split Shop’s sapphic/lesbian guide is your go-to resource for finding community and making memories. Happy exploring!
The Seattle Sapphic/Lesbian Guide: Our Spaces
Let's start off with a sapphic/lesbian guide to spaces. These may include explicitly sapphic/lesbian physical locations or ones that have a clear sapphic-friendly vibe or ownership. With this sapphic/lesbian guide to physical locations, you can hang out with other sapphics IRL and support our wonderful small business owners with your patronage.
Sapphic/lesbian guide to bars:
Our sapphic/lesbian guide would not be complete without Wildrose--Seattle's only sapphic bar! This cherished safe haven for sapphics opened in 1984 and has been serving our community ever since. Check out their calendar for fun events like Beers and Queers, Boob Sweat Dance Party, and Queer Joy Night. This iconic spot is a must-visit for any Seattle sapphic.
If you’re a sports fan check out Rough and Tumble in Ballard. Not technically a lesbian bar but it’s a bar dedicated to women’s sports so the sapphic overlap is strong. The vibe is welcoming, inclusive, inspiring and, most importantly, fun!
Sapphic/lesbian guide to cafes:
Squirrel Chops is an adorable sapphic-owned combination coffee shop and hair salon! They are a community-oriented establishment that is committed to being active in the movements for racial, gender, and economic justice and to providing a safe and welcoming space for all individuals, regardless of their background or identity. So stop by to enjoy a delicious latte and support a sapphic small business with a beautiful and uplifting mission.
Proclaimed the "West Coast's Gayest Tea Shop" Friday Afternoon Tea describes itself as a queer witch nerdy tea house with a dash of cozy and a lot of magic! After all, who doesn't love some rainbow unicorn sprinkles? Check out their events calendar for cute events like Silent Book Club and Craft & Chat.
Sapphic/lesbian guide to other spaces:
Charlie's is a cute queer/trans-owned bookstore whose mission is to provide a unique bookstore experience dedicated to creating community connection through queer literature. They host author events, book clubs, and crafting nights--so definitely something for everyone! Go check it out!
The Seattle Sapphic/Lesbian Guide: Events and Organizations
Beyond physical spaces, here's Banana Split Shop's sapphic/lesbian guide to the organizations and event coordinators bringing our community together with parties, art, activism, and more.
Sapphic/lesbian guide to events and organizations:
A small event business curating themed events for sapphics and lesbians. A few Sapphic Events party themes are Sapphic Prom, The Sapphic Renaissance, and Sapphic Hearts VDay Burlesque Party.
A community for and by sapphic, lesbian, queer, and trans people of color. They've organized events like QTMart, Queer Latinx Dance Night, QTPOC Speed Dating, and Vogue Femme
Queer Scouts Seattle is a peer-led skill share group focused on building community for queer and trans adults through radical inclusion. Queer Scouts is also a sober space.
Lezztalkaboutit is a Seattle-based lesbian & queer event organizer with events like Bikini Day Party, Gaychella Cowgirls, and Portrait of a Lady on Fire movie theater night.
Sapphic Lit Seattle is a book club that meets about once a month. They vote on their meeting dates and times and are open to any genre as long as it's sapphic/queer content!
Community-funded celebrations, classes, and artist residencies. A few of their events: Are you a Friend of Dorothy, Femme Fatale Sapphic Goth Night, Sapphic Soiree, and Sculpt & Sip.
PS OLOC
Events for activism and social change hosted by the by Puget Sound Old Lesbians Organizing for Change. Their organization also aims to support and empower old lesbians
Seattle Dyke Alliance is the official organizer of the Seattle Dyke March. They are a volunteer-run organization that works to create links between queers & dykes alike.
Panty Riot Burlesque is a Seattle-based queer burlesque company. They are committed to building an inclusive space for all bodies and identities to create within.
Seattle Queer Crafts is a volunteer-led project helping Seattle queers and trans folks connect casually through crafting and creating meet-ups. They typically meet twice a month. 
Queer Fight Night is a monthly fighting class for queer and trans folks in Seattle. They meet first Saturday from 7-9pm, and feature all different types of martial arts. Masks are mandatory.
Why We Make Sapphic/Lesbian Guides:
Community building and sapphic pleasure are at the heart of Banana Split's mission!
At Banana Split Shop, building community is just as important to us as creating pleasure-focused products. That’s why we’re committed to bringing sapphics together—both in the bedroom and beyond. Our sapphic/lesbian guides are just one of the ways we help our community find spaces to connect, celebrate, and thrive.
Looking for more ways to engage? Explore our sapphic/lesbian guides for other cities, dive into our sexual wellness blog, and learn more about Banana Split Shop’s mission to empower sapphic pleasure. Visit our About Page to discover how we’re redefining intimacy for sapphic partnerships, or browse our collection of sapphic-friendly toys designed for connection, exploration, and mutual pleasure.
Wherever you are in your journey, our sapphic/lesbian guides are here to help you find your people, your spaces, and your pleasure.
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